Back story to start the story…
Now me and my friend been in this friendship game for 20 plus years. We did a lot together! However, over time we moved to different states, our kids grew up, we got married, pursued different careers and overall we just experienced life in totally different avenues. In the beginning, when I needed her she was there and visa versa. As time went on…when I needed her the game changed. Hey I get it we got lives to live and I understand but wait when she called “I was there like swimwear”. She called I answered no matter what but when I called her it was a hold up wait a minute type of situation…I was left on READ!! Here’s the final straw that broke the camel’s back: I called and said hey I’m coming into your city let’s do dinner. Her response: I don’t have time. Let me say this to give more context: I was there in her city for 5 days and 4 nights. At this moment in time, I realized I gave too much access to someone who did not appreciate or love me. See your friends need to love you when you don’t need the love and really love you when you do need the love.
Her access was BLOCKED!!
Friendships. Relationships. Family members. Co-workers. Neighbors.
Let me say this for the people who in the back!!!! EVERYTHING HAS LIMITS!!
No one but your kids, significant other or that one person you truly love & trust should have total access to who you genuinely are and your whole life. Given inappropriate access could completely destroy everything about YOU! There are several people who have total access to your whole self….And guess what??? They don’t deserve it. They often use access to manipulate and control you…..WHY??
It’s too many reasons to list.
Limiting access to potential toxic people allows for you to make yourself the priority.
The people that have access to your whole life has a powerful affect on the way you think which influences your mind, body and soul.
Protect your self, your vibe and your energy!